Do you have a cloud of dust following you?
Proverbs 23:7 - As a man thinketh in his heart so is he. Beauty comes from within. If your heart is unclean, full of negativity - others will see it. If you want to be attractive - look at your heart.
The right thinking begins with how we communicate to ourself - do we speak encouraging words to ourselves - affirmations? Or are we critical of ourselves. We are architects of our life and we create our own pain and suffering from our unconscious thoughts. Your thoughts create a reality for you so if you see yourself as lonely or poor then you will be lonely or poor. If you think you are surrounded by loved ones or you are wealthy - you will not be lonely or poor.
It takes practice but once you are able to get used to this concept it really isn't that hard and you will find your life full of blessings.
First, visualize yourself as if you are already where you want to be. Yes, name it and claim it. See it feel it, hear it, taste it. Change your attitude to what you want in life.
Then, take care of you - eat healthy, exercise, get active. Focus on a healthy lifestyle. If you are what you eat - then eating junk foods will not help not only your physical body, but your mind as well.
Be your goal - Healthy, trim and fit people think of themselves as healthy trim and fit. Wealthy people think of themselves as wealthy. Focus on your desire - now, this is not giving you a reason to go blow money irresponsibly and it does not mean you can just sit back and do nothing.
If you are struggling with negative thoughts be aware of those negative thoughts and change it to a positive one. Think of the recent movie - Inception - you need to tear down and re-build. You can turn any negative thing into something positive. Don't ever say can't - strike it from your vocabulary. Don't ever say ... I'm never going to .... otherwise you never will. Remember all things are possible.
Act upon your goals - if you struggle with feeling unworthy - act upon it... even if you have to pretend. Act as if you have value. Don't walk around in grunge clothes all the time. Get up, clean up, get dressed nicely - dress your best and you will feel your best. Eat healthy and exercise.
Be grateful for what you have and what you are getting ready to have. Be thankful for your relationships, your job, the weather, the flowers and animals, the sound of the birds chirping.
Be open to receiving and having - if you don't feel you deserve it or you are worthy to receive it - you will never achieve this - and what you have will disappear.
Surround yourself with beautiful people, beautiful things. Listen to uplifting music, read encouraging books. Make your living space peaceful and inviting. And heaven forbid don't wear your PJs all day!
Everyday - meditate or pray being thankful for the glorious blessings that you will be receiving. Don't do the "Dear God, Please Help Me - I need a job" Instead - do the "Thank you God, for providing all of my needs, for surrounding me with beautiful people, and for the dream job that you are making ready for me.
Kristin <3